Getting out of small talk isn’t as easy as it should be. We’ve all been there – we run into someone we know or we’re chatting with someone new and we’re ready for the convo to end, but we don’t want to be rude. The good news is that etiquette expert Jo Hayes says there is a way you can end the small talk smoothly.
So, what’s Jo’s number one go-to phrase for ending small talk politely? She uses the phrase “Please forgive me [insert name here]. I must go. Lovely to speak with you.” Jo says the key is that it’s clear, concise, and also kind.
“It offers an apology, which immediately ‘softens the blow’ of wrapping up the conversation,” she says. “It’s clear, explaining that one must leave the conversation promptly. And the phrase wraps up by offering a kind word acknowledging pleasure with the person.” Jo also adds that it’s important to say their name. “People love hearing their own names” she further explains. “It makes them feel seen.”
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